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Examine messages and attachments as a whole, not separately. Often the details -- size, name or extension -- as well as the nature of the message will give them away. If something is fishy just delete the message, along with the attachment, and get on with your life.
HTML attachments (filename.htm or filename.html) are a special case. Depending on how the message was composed, and on its size, email clients will show some HTML messages as attachments. Others will be displayed directly with no attachment. Either one can have malicious content though. That's why it's so important to configureyour browser and/or your email client correctly.
Many messages with malicious attachments will appear to come from a legitimate address, or even from someone you know. Be suspicious of any attachment that you were not expecting -- even though it's from someone you know. Be paranoid about attachments from anyone you don't know.
I tried to capture the thinking process that I use to deal with messages and attachments by creating this list of questions. I actually don't go down the list in order, although that's the way to learn the logic. I more or less ask the questions in parallel.I suggest that you try following the steps explicitly a few times to get a feel for how to think about messages and when to open attachments.
You don't know this person from Adam (or Eve as the case may be). Maybe you should go back to Question 3 again. Otherwise, proceed to "handle files safely".
If the answer to all the questions is no, do not go, you might still want to proceed to some "advice on handle files safely".